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Fever in the heartland: The Ku Klux Klan’s Plot to Take Over America, and the Woman Who Stopped Them by Timothy Egan

This is a true story. The actions happened one hundred years ago.

What happened is abhorrent.

That it happened is unconscionable.

That history may be repeating itself is terrifying.

I even hesitated to write this book review because of fear. But if I learned anything from this book, it is to speak when you need, because no one else will.

This is a book of how men feed on the fears of others to profit for themselves. After reconstruction the South found ways to intimidate the slaves that they had once owned. Even if emancipated, there continued to be groups that believe Blacks were inferior to Whites. Men took to wearing white sheets to imitate ghosts to scare those that are different from them. Thus, the Ku Klux Klan was born. The federal government just after the war was able to dampen this fervor, but after Lincoln was assassinated, pressure from the Southern states to keep the parties together led to an easing of the concerns. Hiram Evans, head of the Klan, looked to expand its influence north. At the same time D.C. Stephenson landed in Indiana. With no real known history, he was able to charm his way into the Klan while finding ways to enrich himself along the way. This money, as well as his charm, led to a huge increase in Klan membership in Indiana – a state that had sent the most men to fight the South in the Civil War. Fear was used openly to prey on “others” to ensure a pure race of “true Americans” – White Protestant Men – who would use this fear to buy politicians, police, store owners, bankers, priests and more to create structural walls to keep these “others” from economic, educational, and social gains. Money helped to hide that D.C. Stephenson, and many others such as Daisy Douglas Barr, helped build this empire of fear. They created a shadow police force that was above the law, and thought of themselves above it too. They were, however, practicing the drinking and debauchery they were deriding in others.

D.C. Stephenson, specifically, threw huge parties flowing with alcohol during Prohibition. Naked women were available to men. People showed up and were photographed in compromising positions that D.C. used against them to get what he wanted. All along, D.C. was assaulting women – something that he had done to a few of them that he married but didn’t tell anyone about. Then one day he decided that Madge Oberholtzer was his next victim. He lured her to his mansion, drugged her, forced her to board a train to Chicago where he brutally assaulted her – not only raping her but biting out chunks of her flesh. She was able to buy poison to kill herself to escape, but decided after she had taken half a dose that she needed to stay alive to make him pay. Her mother’s presence at the Stephenson mansion led to Madge being abruptly taken home, ill and badly beaten. There Madge was able to dictate and correct a testimony of what happened to her. It is through this testimony, and that of the coroner and doctor that treated her, that brought about D.C Stephenson’s indictment.

D.C. was not concerned about losing the murder case brought against him. He had people owing him, all the way up to the governor’s office. What he didn’t count on was that the men of the jury had seen through his charade and were only concerned about the penalty he would pay. If not for these men, D.C. would not have turned on those that did not save him, spilling the whole sordid story – memberships and secrets – to make these men pay for the betrayal. The whole of the plan to land D.C. in the white house would never have come to light otherwise. As he said himself – he would have been a dictator.

What truly scares me of this entirely true story is the comparisons of today: 

D.C. Stephenson, a drifter and con-man, arrives in Indiana. He has tried his hand at a number of enterprises that failed, has left wives and a child along the way. His personal history was ever shifting. He began to peddle hatred – of Blacks, Catholics, Irish, Italian and Jews. Anyone that is not “fully Americanized.” This meant white, protestant, born here – no disabilities or mental challenges allowed. He rises quickly through the ranks of an organization – the Klu Klux Klan – as he enriches himself through cutting deals to take cuts of membership fees, robe costs, bootlegging (during prohibition) and more. He gets people to fear others. He begins to bring politicians, police, and priests into the fold, helping propel a reign of terror in Indiana while giving a group think of “being right”. He claims “I am the law.” After multiple assaults on women, one finally speaks out on the cannibalistic and brutal assault she endured. He is indicted, but his slate of politicians still wins. 

Donald J Trump, a con-man, arrives on reality tv, trying out his latest enterprise by saying he’s so successful. To my recollection there has been an airline, a university, a board game, a vodka, steaks, water, magazines, casinos, winery, and cologne businesses that have failed. He has left wives and children. He has peddled hatred – of outsiders from other countries, people with disabilities, veterans, and women. He talks about bringing back America to those that deserve it – the White Protestant Americans that make up his political base. He has been known to put a price on loyalty to him above anything else. Women have claimed he has slept with them (e.g. Stormy Daniels) or raped them (E Jean Carroll). He has claimed he can shoot someone on Wall Street and get away with it. He is indicted, but he still has the nomination of the Republican party. He has said he would be dictator.

Who will be today’s brave soul that will stand against the fear to do what is right? Only time will tell.

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Visiting Oceania with J Maarten Troost

J Maarten Troost is a travel writer that has lived an extraordinary life. First, he follows his girlfriend to the Equatorian Atoll of Kiribati for two years, returned to Washington DC, only to get restless again. He then follows his wife (same person) to the Islands of Fiji and Vanuatu. Through both of his books, The Sex Lives of Cannibals and Getting Stoned with Savages, the raw truth, and the raw sewage, is exposed while living on the other end of the earth. While never taking himself quite seriously, these books impart both the absurdity of island life and some well researched facts on the areas he visits. You actually hear of the colonial history, the remains of this including racial hatred, as well as details of the Neckowiar of Tanna (a rare three-day alliance ceremony between villages) they witnessed, including details of the leaf men wear over their penis for a full day of dance. You learn about the tribal history of the people of Vanuatu, the colonial history of invasion, cannibalism, how to make kava, and how centipedes there can kill. Through it all, you learn of the differences in the cultures of other, how the customs came about, and how it may seem like paradise, but don’t look too closely to see the cracks. These were two fun reads.

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Cybersecurity Awareness Month

October was cybersecurity awareness month. While it is technically over, we are in an actual state of war every time we log onto the web. With Phishing, Spearhunting; Spoofing and more, you must be aware of every click. With this in mind, I actually picked up a book to learn more about Information Technology and Protection.

Adventures of an IT Leader was the BEST text book I have read on this subject. Written as novel, each chapter reviews a challenge that the brand new head of IT is facing. You are engaged, and feel the tension and confusion as each challenge arises to be dealt with. The conditions that are challenging are realistic, and the people delivering the information are engaging also. This was an excellent way to put in front of any person, be they a “techie” or not, to understand.

This made me think of all the other books I have read that have engaged me over the years around technology. Here are some of the ones that still come to mind easily:

Soul of a New Machine by Tracy Kidder Followed Data General’s creation of a minicomputer in one year in the late 1970s that brought on the tech revolution.

He, She, and It by Marge Piercy Fiction that predicted what AI can do – in 1991 it even predicted that we would be talking to our houses.

The Phoenix Project: A Novel About IT, DevOps, and Helping Your Business Win by Gene Kim, Kevin Behr, and George Spafford. Just as the Adventures book, this is an engaging and easily accessible way to learn how to handle DevOps.

Permanent Record by Edward Snowden The story of how he helped build and then bring down a system similar to “Big Brother”

1984 by George Orwell – The book that introduced us to “Big Brother”

Ready Player One by Ernest Cline A Young Adult novel about hiding in the internet, and how it can take over your life.

Mr Penumbra’s 24 hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan – A novel about how data can be both useful and not.

Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men by Caroline Criado Pérez Unconscious Bias in the collection of data.

Enjoy!!

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Non-fiction in the air – even with a mask on.

In the strange world we are living in, I am amazed that I am able to concentrate at all on any book.  It has been harder than ever for me, but every few weeks I try to pick up something new.  I tried The Water Dancer, American Dirt and Little Fires Everywhere, but I just couldn’t handle the difficult topics, even if they were so well written.  I will return to them when I feel more grounded.  Instead, I have spent the last few weeks reading books of real people, living real lives. 

This first book, after having sat upon my bookshelf for years, is The Year of Living Biblically, by A.J. Jacobs. It was surprisingly engaging.  As A.J. went through his quest to learn more traditions and live closer to the letters of the biblical law, I saw a man striving to find himself in so many ways.  This was just the method he was currently using.  I saw in myself the understanding I have always tried to have around religious rules, separating those from traditions and determining what these meant and why I would either to continue to observe it or not.  I felt light after reading this.  Somehow closer to myself and the “greater being” I believe in. 

After finishing this book, I found The Library Book by Susan Orleans.  I was expecting a novel, and jumped right in.  This is absolutely not a novel.  I found an intriguing story of how the Los Angeles Central Library was created and grew, only to be devastated by fire in the 1980s.  Hearing the story as we are taken through the halls of the rebuilt library, with a mystery of how the fire was started and how the institution has changed was fascinating for a self-proclaimed library lover.  This simply highlighted the unique and special place libraries, their caretakers, and their contents are. 

I followed this up with The Young Woman and The Sea by Glen Stout.  I was drawn to this after I heard him in a book group for my employer talking about the book.  The way he explained the world of the time, jumping in and out of the space, and the context of swimming within the larger woman’s movement made me seek this out.  Learning about Trudie Edele, the first woman to cross the English Channel, was not all I gleaned from his pages. While this was a bit long with suppositions on things going through Trudie’s mind when swimming, the details on how she was instrumental in breaking so many barriers simply by being herself was refreshing and exciting.  I had never seen her in that light before, and I gained additional admiration for her ability to put sportsmanship first and swam for the joy of it.

Who knows what I will pick up next?  Could be from the library, Amazon Prime or even my own bookshelf.  I will go where the spirit pulls, and do my best to share with you some highlights.

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Happy Stories for Stressful Times

In this crazy time of social distance, self-isolation and quarantine, there is nothing better than curling up and escaping with a good book. I spend a ton of time doing this. In order to keep up our spirits, I thought I would share some titles that are fun and enjoyable to help the time go. In no order other than the one that I thought of first:

A Man Called Ove: All about a grumpy man that finds his solitary world turned on its head when a young family moves in next door. He becomes engaged despite his best intentions, leaving you smiling all along.

An Odyssey: A Father, a Son, and an Epic: Eighty-one-year-old Jay Mendelsohn enrolls in an undergraduate seminar his son teaches on the Odyssey. Explores both the story and their relationship. Sweet tribute to his father.

Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood: Trevor Noah’s memoir of growing up in South Africa and coming to America to host The Daily Show on Comedy Central.

Daisy Jones & The Six: A fictional band who’s only album is an anthem for 70’s rock and roll broke up and no one knows why – until now. Hearing this story is a bit like Almost Famous, but even better.

Mrs. Queen Takes the Train: What would happen if the Queen of England went on a stroll without the knowledge of her courtiers? Find out here.

Roommates Wanted: 1990, Toby Dobbs is gifted a house for a wedding gift from his father. One month later his wife leaves, and Toby advertises for roommates. 15 years later they are still there. How to move forward in his life, now that his father is about to show up for the first time in 15 year? Smile and read on.

The Daily Show: An Oral History: How the show came into being, hosts changed, and how the show changed the country. As a fan of the show, and of Jon Stewart, I loved reading the behind the scenes and remembering when I first watched the shows/events they mentioned.

The Martian: A young adult book that had my son at the opening line (“I am F*&^*&%). I loved it because it was fun, stressful, and funny.

The Most Beautiful Book in the World: Eight Novellas: Eight separate stories populated by a wide cast of characters, all exploring what beauty is.

The One and Only: Love of football and romance combine in this story of a super football fan with a crush on the legendary head coach, her best friend’s father.

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Jerusalem – the heart in four chambers

Jerusalem Drawn and Quartered by Sarah Tuttle-Singer was a memoir I was very much drawn to read.  The premise of the book was to live for one year within the walls of the old city, time spent in each one of the quarters.  I was excited to read the stories about how each section was, the differences and the similarities. 
What the book ended up being, however, was a woman that is still processing traumas.  From the onset of reading the book, you learn of the author’s love of Israel, how she came as a teen and how she fell in love with the place.  Her mother had done the same thing, and had passed on this love of the country. 
You are then plunged into half stories and innuendo on her mother’s death, a possible sexual assault, a stoning, an abusive relationship, and a divorce and another sexual assault.  The story telling of this is all in the backdrop of explaining the different parts of Jerusalem, friends and acquaintances.  She spends 3 days at a time in the old city, so she can be with her children the other days near the kibbutz they live on with their father.  She is not a resident in any quarter, but a short time visitor.  She is always looking for the rooftop, echoing a story of her grandmother’s first time in Israel and being caught kissing someone on a roof before being sent to Chicago.  There are sparks of conversations and insights that I wish the author would have explored more:  
  • The person who’s fiancé was born in the old city, but left in 1967 to be with his father in Jordan, and cannot get a visa to come back, so the fiancé needed to chose between the person she loved or the city she loved.
  • The Muslim family that invited her in one night when she was out near dark and it was not safe. This matriarch, with a girl and boy just like the author’s, was never fully developed.  We never learn of the ways of the family, just the fact that both mothers wanted their children to go out and save the environment together.  The common ground between the two were only explored on the surface. 
  • The Arab man that sat with her over coffee to tell her that his family fled in 1948 to stay safe from the war. They came back when it was done and someone else was in their house.  They want their house back. 
  • The Muslim tailor that gave the author’s daughter her first Jewish Star necklace, the taxi driver that thanked her for making friends with Arabs and apologized for all the terror that had been done on behalf of his people (which the author reciprocated). 

All of these were mentioned, but not examined in anything more than the observation that these things happen. 

A major part of the story is her processing her mother’s death, an abusive relationship, a possible assault, a stoning and more.  I have tried my best to see if these are to be metaphors for the city of Jerusalem, but I am just not convinced these are.  The loss of innocence, the spilling of blood, the abuse of those you love – while there may be some similarities, they remain too vague to be real, in my opinion.  That is why I am so unsure about what the point of the book was.  To me it was more of an exercise to see if she could be strong for herself and her children, while putting herself in danger with stupid decisions (really – why on earth would I feel this woman is strong because someone followed her to a hotel and she yelled at him, when earlier she just stood and took it when someone undressed her when she didn’t want it at a different one?)  She kept relaying both sides of herself – again not sure if was supposed to be metaphor for the city or not, but it made me not like her.

After reading the book, I want even more to understand the differences between the quarters.  Why they are there, what motivates them, and what commonalities or assumptions that everyone has – so we can break down barriers toward a real peace. 
In this time of forgiveness and atonement, I was hoping for more.
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Odyssey – the epic that keeps teaching us about ourselves

When I saw a book [An Odyssey:  A father, a son and an epic] about a father taking his son’s college level seminar on the Odyssey, I was intrigued.  Daniel Mendelson’s story, entwined with the epic itself, takes the opportunity to teach us parts of the classic story while mirroring what he is teaching.  The poem tells you what will happen at the beginning, in the first lines of the poem.  That is also done in this story.  As the circles of the poem are wrapped around us, Mendelson does the same, going back and forth in time, as the epic does.  It is so well done, and even though I know what happens, when I got to the end, I burst into sobs – not just tears.  He had made this epic of his life, his own journey to find his father, that I was caught up with him.  As I take the lessons taught in this book, I am thankful for the truth of knowing my parents.  I had time with them when both my sisters were off at college.  During that time we were able to forge a special relationship, able to build more adult relationships.  I pray that I am able to do the same with my children.  They taught me well.

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Educated: a memoir of survival

Tara is a child that has defied all sorts of odds to get to where she is today. She has survived a bi-polar father, a subservient wife, a violent brother, and all kinds of wounds both physical and psychological.

While I understand that there are groups of people that resist the government at all costs, it is always amazing to me that they do so by keeping those around them ignorant. No TV, no books, no contact with outsiders. This keeps those around the charismatic leader dependent upon them for any information. This is the typical manner that the male establishment has maintained control over women. This establishment includes religious establishment.

It is not surprising that when Tara earns a scholarship to Cambridge, she begins to read the foundational Mormon texts differently. As with many other religious texts, the undercurrent of a woman’s place in the home is strong. The weapon of ignorance continues today to be wielded against women from here to the Middle East and back. When women have no other information or source, the history they know is only the one told by the man. And we all know, history is shaped by the winner.  By creating the history, there is only one future for women in the world.
Throughout the story of her childhood and growing awareness of the world, we hear how her father decided her mother should be a mid-wife, even though she was terrified. How her father decided they were leaving Utah in the middle of the night in a snow storm, ending in a car wreck that almost killed the entire family. How her father put her brother on a beam that he dropped approximately 12 feet from, sat him up and went back to work. All his many children were scared of him and the end of the world he kept predicting.  The family had weapons, fuel and food to last many years when the world was to end at Y2K, and were sure the Feds were going to kill them like they did the Weavers. All history and facts came through her father.

As Tara begins to experience the outside world, she learns facts and history she never knew. The Holocaust, Civil Rights Movement, and the story of Ruby Ridge, where the Weavers were killed. All were either new to her or new details were revealed that showed the original information to be false.

She is conflicted with wanting something else while still wanting the familiar. The fact that the root of the word is family is not coincidental. As she begins to read, to work, and to learn she begins living separate lives, keeping them away from each other. She cannot reconcile the two. At one point she wonders if she had become too educated to be part of her family. Ultimately the cost of learning and becoming a Phd was her family. With the majority of the family economically dependent upon the parents, they are able to keep them doing as the father wants. Other siblings that have been able to leave and educate themselves, also Phds, are on the outside.

The thing that causes the great rift is that she speaks out about her brother’s physical abuse to her and her sister. She did so in support of her sister, Audrey. The cost to Audrey was too high – to be cut off from her economic support (both she and her husband worked for her father) and to be cast out of the family while living minutes from them was too dear to pay.

Throughout the story of her life there are moments where she is told to stay in the kitchen where she belongs, that she should not tempt men, and that she deserved to be beaten, that she was not dating as commanded by the Mormon Church. These conflicts will remain with her always. The ultimate price to pay for being your own person in this family is to be cast out. Tara was lucky that so many were cast out she was able to go to her aunt and state she would ignore what her father claimed of the aunt if the favor was returned. That family – previously lost to her – is what sustains her now.

In the face of so many obstacles, her ability to survive on her own terms is the legacy the family gave her. A brave woman, stronger than even she knows.

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Happy Father’s Day

I never had a pet, besides goldfish, until I got married. I married a man who was totally devoted to his 2 cats, which I was allergic to. We agreed that since they were 8 years old, we would keep them and then be a pet free family. 5 years of immuno-therapy, daily doses of allegra, advair and the more than occasional hit of ibuterol, and the cats were still going strong. We lost Amanda at the age of 18, and Jessica was a faithful companion for 21 years.
That was 2013.

My husband and children went into mourning, but also started a subtle war of hints. Finally, in the spring of 2014 I was persuaded to go to a shelter, on the context of donating the litter and food we had left, and take a peek at the kittens. There my husband fell in love with Pistol Annie. Within minutes of me touching her, however, I began to wheeze. That was when my husband’s dream of adding to his cat history ended. That was also the day he became determined to convince me to get an “allergy free” dog.

For Father’s day, I read the memoir of the best friend any dad could have – Marley & Me by John Grogan. John and his new wife Jenny start their life together, kill a plant and then decide to adopt a dog to practice before having kids. They fall in love with a yellow lab, whom they named Marley. Marley stories from puppy-hood through adulthood, and all the changes that the family went through over that time, are chronicled in honest and loving detail, including the story when the dog was so terrified of thunder that he ripped apart a door to get in from the garage, through plaster and all. Not sugar coated, but told with love.

As most pet stories end, they are gone well before we are ready. This tribute to the dog, what he taught and what he took, reminds us all of the undying love and devotion, selflessness, and fun they play in shaping our lives.

Happy Father’s day – and thank you for providing all your undying love and devotion to us, your family.